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Beena, bernadettaF, biniS, blaise, boscoR,
Calvina.gang, Carissa, carl, carlM, celinaF, chelseaR, cherrylP, chong, christabelleR, christinaA, christineF, claudette.
danikaR, deepaSom, deepikaShet, devanshiS, devenC, dimples, dorothyT,
Edwina, Elaine, ericaM,
farinazW, fayann,
gauharS, genevieveF, gerardD, glendaN, glynis, Gordon,
habibaI, hetaC,
ishaS, ishitaK, ivoraP,
janiceB, janineC, asmineP, jenniferT, jessicaA, jiyaG, joanitaB, Joaquim, joenlynn; joey, johncie, johnQ, jonitaD, joynelF, judeA, juliaJ, jyotsnaM,
kanakangiB, kanakS, kaneenica, karenF, karishmaH, kasturiR, kaumudiM, khursheedK, kimberleyL, kimmyann, komal, krupali, kunaliS,
lalitaT, latikaV, lexleyP,linusF, lionelF, lizannF, lizaS, loo,
madhulicaK, manasiS, ManasviS, maneeshaP, mangalaN, manishP, maranna, mariaD, marisaD, marisaM, maryA, mayuri, meenakshiI, meghnaG, meghnaT, meherM, meherrikhM, menakaD, merinM, merleO, michaelC, mirabellaDC, mischelleD, mridulA, mrudutaC, mugdhaK,
namitaF, NanditaM, nanditaP, naomiF, nehaJ, Neharika, nehaV, nicoletteD; nidhiT, ninettePer, niyantaP, niyatiJ, noorV, oleen,
pallaviS, paridnya, parinaz, PearlDS, pearlDS2, pervinS, petal, poojaG, poonamB, prachiSan, priyaBaid, priyaBaj, priyaL; priyamvadaM, priyankaB, priyankaJ, priyankaN, priyankaSS, pruthaS, putliP,
radhikaS, Rakhee, rakhshanda, ramonaP, rashmitaS,rashnaI, rasikaV, rennyG, rheaC, rimitaD, rituD, rituT, rochelleA, ronita, roseG, roshanBVou, roshnaT, Rosita, roy, ruchiPal, ruchiPar, rutikaV,
sakinaCh, Salim, saloniBh, samiraM, sanciaD, sanjanaM, sanket, saradaB, seemaJac, shalmaliG, shalmaliSank, , sharanya, sharonAD, sharonS, sharvariJ, shetal, shilpaS, shireenL, shonaD, shonaliS, ShradaB, shraddhaN, shreyaK, shreyaT, shrutiG, shrutiN, shrutiW, sidhdhiS, simonD, sohiniM, soniaMenon, sophiaJ, soumyaV, sujataS, sulaxanaB, supriyaKap, surabhiN, surbhiK, suzanne, sweedleP,
tamaraM, tanayaR, tanviJ, tanviS, tanyaN, tarangC, tejashree, tejaswiniP, tmsC, tomK, truptiP, tupur,
uddipanaK, umaRC. upneetS,
vahbizP, vaidehiMah. valerieR, vallariM, vanditaS, vanitaDM, vanithaK, varshaM, venoraL, vibhaK, viditaS, vrushaliG, vrushaliK,
waltyP, Yakuta, yaminiJ, yaminiW, Yogita, yvetteG,
zebaQ, zeniaA, zenV, ziaH, ZiaPar,
My dear
Here’s something useful to carry with you as you journey your way through the unpredictable circumstances of life and challenging relationships with people of all kinds…..
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I like this….and it has grown into my system little by little over the years. In my attitude towards and dealings with people specially, but also in the way I cope with events that tumble-toss me in life. No control over them and there’s nothing I can do about that. So I take charge of myself at least, and work out an “anyway” approach response to them.
Of course I am affected by people’s occasional unpleasant behaviour towards me but I do what I can to minimise that. If someone pinches me I will say “ouch” and get it over with. If someone abuses me I will get upset but just for a little while. I try not to ignore others because to ignore requires me to pay attention to them even if it is negatively. Rather than doing that I try not to be affected by them. Whether they are there or not, my own behaviour is the same and under my control.
And my “anyway” attitude helps me to gracefully carry on living my own life without it having to be controlled by the whims or idiosyncrasies of someone else.
Not that everybody is out to get me or make me feel bad!! I have come across very few of these. Hardly any, in fact. There are loads of reasonable, logical people, and lots and lots of good friends and many who are kind and generous and appreciative. There are also people who might correct and criticise me but they do it caringly. Thank God for that.
Overall, I am really blessed as far as people in my life are concerned.
And I will not allow a few people, who might have their own reasons for being the way they are, to disturb my peace of mind.
And life goes on…….Anyway… like I said!
Lots of celebration and looking ahead to you too!
Take care. Love, Terry