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aashitaK, aasthaD, abi, aditiR, aditiV, aishwariyaG, ajay.gang, akhila, akshataA, akshaya, alan.fly, aneriT, anjanaS, ankitaG, annT, antaraT, aparnaA, aparnaN, aparnaT, apuK, arpitaN, arthurD, arushi,<\/p>\n
barbaraDM, bianca, biniP, biniS, boscoR,<\/p>\n
carls, christabelleR, christie, claudette,<\/p>\n
danica.gang, deepaShe, deepaSom, deepikaM, deeptiA, denisR, derek.sonia, dishaJ, diyaB, dorothyT, durga, dwisha,<\/p>\n
edwina, emicaN, ericaM,<\/p>\n
fergus, gandhali, georgeC, gitaliR,<\/p>\n
haalahS, heba,<\/p>\n
ibtisam, insiaL, ishaG,<\/p>\n
janviG, jasmine, jennyT, joseluis, juliaJ, jyotsnaM,<\/p>\n
karinD, karishmaCh, kesavanN, khushbooA, kritikaS, krutiT, kshitiSV, kylynnB,<\/p>\n
lexley, linusF, looSh,<\/p>\n
madhuriR maduraG, manishP, maryA, mariamM, mariette, michaelC, mirabelle, misbahS, mugdhaS,<\/p>\n
namitaF, nanda, nanditaM, neelK, nylaS,<\/p>\n
poojaG, poojaShe, pranjaliC, prashantO, prerna, priyamvadaM, priyankaR.gang, priyankaSur, pujaG, pitliP,<\/p>\n
radhikaR, rakhee, rashmiR, rashnaI, rasikaV, rasikaU, reema, reshmaB, rheaC, rituD, roshanBala, ruchikaB,<\/p>\n
saadhvi, sakinaCh, salimS, saloniB, samataA, samruddhiP, sandhyaS, savioCra, shamitaB, sharonP, sharonSin, sharviM, shaziyaK, shobhaG, \u00a0shonaliS, shivangiP, shriyaP, shrutiG, shrutiW, shubhamS, simmi, simran, smritiA, soniaM, sophiaJ, sudhaP, sujataS, sukritiS, supriyaC, swastika,<\/p>\n
tarang, tezzSpace, trinjhna,<\/p>\n
utsha, vaishnaviP, valerie,<\/p>\n
walter, yakuta, yvette,<\/p>\n
zaverS, zelynda, zenia,<\/p>\n
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My dear<\/p>\n
Thanks for your mail and I hope your exams went off continue going on super.<\/p>\n
Holidays soon for you…<\/p>\n
Adventure, excitement, surprises and interludes of peace and relaxation….YYYYYYYAAAAAAAYYYYYYY !<\/p>\n
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A brother of mine sent me this story on the email.<\/p>\n
It is a nice simple story and I am sharing it with you.<\/p>\n
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\u00a0A young couple moves into a new neighbourhood.<\/p>\n
The next morning while they are eating breakfast the young woman sees her neighbour hang the wash outside.<\/p>\n
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” The laundry is not very clean”,\u00a0 she said, “She doesn’t know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better laundry soap.”<\/p>\n
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Her husband looked out at the washing \u00a0but remained silent.<\/p>\n
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Every time her neighbour would hang her wash to dry, the young woman would make the same comment.<\/p>\n
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About\u00a0two weeks \u00a0later the young woman was surprised to see a nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband : “Look! She has finally learned to wash correctly! I wonder who taught her this.”<\/p>\n
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The husband said: “I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows.”<\/p>\n
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Now that’s an interesting story .<\/p>\n
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You’re not going to believe it but something similar happened to me…<\/p>\n
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For many years I used to look at the college and the world and people I knew and worked with and the work that I was doing\u00a0 and practically all of life itself\u00a0through a somewhat uncleaned window.<\/p>\n
There were times when I looked at myself that way as well: I wasn\u2019t capable or good enough … Obstacles were insurmountable…. challenges were too big….. and things like that.<\/p>\n
OK, OK, so it was a stained glass window \u00a0and looked pretty like that but still it was not all that clean and what I saw through it was kind of blurred and not so beautiful…..<\/p>\n
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Then you know what I did?<\/p>\n
Since I did not have anyone else to do it for me…. I had to do it myself so I did it :<\/p>\n
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I opened the window!!\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n
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And suddenly a lot of things looked differently beautiful and natural and clear.<\/p>\n
Just like it was\u00a0 meant to be and actually was…. !<\/p>\n
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I do not easily jump to first-sight and first-impression conclusions now… about others or about myself.<\/p>\n
I check on my windows\u00a0 first – clean or dirty, open or closed, –\u00a0and then I relate to what I see.<\/p>\n
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Occasionally, though,\u00a0I mess up and judge wrongly. If I do that then I generally correct myself and apologise for it.\u00a0 Most people can handle and appreciate \u00a0well meant and sincere apologies .<\/p>\n
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And carrying on after that is a whole lot easier…<\/p>\n
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There is always so much to learn from windows and water bottles and kites and birds and flowers and even from dust \u2026<\/p>\n
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In the end much of the\u00a0world around us is as we see it through windows or glasses or experiences we have had earlier or attitudes we have developed over the years…<\/p>\n
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Cleaning up our windows or opening up our lives does more good to us than it does to what is out there beyond…<\/p>\n
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Doing it right away is a good time to be doing it…. don’t you think?<\/p>\n
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More happy and cleaned-clear windows to you there!<\/p>\n
And more beautiful sights that you open yourself to seeing and experiencing!<\/p>\n
Big counselling rush during April and May. The windows have been cleaned already and I am ready to deal with what is to come.<\/p>\n
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Take care. Lots of love, Terry<\/p>\n
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terryq@xaviers.edu<\/a> aashitaK, aasthaD, abi, aditiR, aditiV, aishwariyaG, ajay.gang, akhila, akshataA, akshaya, alan.fly, aneriT, anjanaS, ankitaG, annT, antaraT, aparnaA, aparnaN, aparnaT, apuK, arpitaN, arthurD, arushi, barbaraDM, bianca, biniP, biniS, boscoR, carls, christabelleR, christie, claudette, danica.gang, deepaShe, deepaSom, deepikaM, deeptiA, denisR, derek.sonia, dishaJ, diyaB, dorothyT, durga, dwisha, edwina, emicaN, ericaM, fergus, gandhali, georgeC, gitaliR, haalahS, heba, ibtisam, insiaL, … <\/p>\n
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